Suami & isteri ingatlah

Sebuah karya yg sesuai utk semua
Bagi yg bujang, boleh ambil iktibar
Bagi yg belum dan bakal berkeluarga, boleh belajar
Bagi yg berkeluarga, perlu mengajar

KALAU BERCINTA…..
Untuk suami, renungkanlah pernikahan atau perkahwinan menyingkap tabir rahsia
 
Isteri yang kamu nikahi tidaklah semulia Khadijah
Tidaklah setaqwa Aisyah
Pun tidak setabah Fatimah
Isterimu hanyalah wanita akhir zaman yang punya cita-cita menjadi solehah…
Pernikahan mengajar kewajipan bersama

Isteri menjadi tanah, kamu langit penaungnya
Isteri ladang tanaman, kamu pemagarnya
Isteri kiasan ternakan, kamu gembalanya
Isteri adalah murid, kamu mursyidnya
Isteri bagaikan anak kecil, kamu tempat bermanjanya

Saat isteri menjadi madu, kamu teguklah sepuasnya
Seketika isteri menjadi racun, kamulah penawar bisanya
Seandainya isteri tulang yang bengkok, berhatilah meluruskannya

Pernikahan mengajar kita perlunya iman dan taqwa
Untuk belajar meniti sabar dan redha ALLAH SWT,
kerana memiliki isteri yg tak sehebat mana

Justeru kamu akan tersentak dari alpa

Kamu bukanlah Rasulullah SAW
Pun bukanlah Sayyidina Ali Karamallahhuwajhah!
Kamu cuma suami akhir zaman yg berusaha menjadi soleh..amin

Untuk isteri pula, renungkanlah…

Pernikahan membuka tabir rahsia
Suami yg menikahi kamu tidaklah semulia Muhammad SAW

Tidaklah setaqwa Ibrahim
Pun tidak setabah Ayyub
Ataupun segagah Musa
Apalagi setampan Yusuf
Suamimu hanyalah lelaki akhir zaman
yg punya cita-cita membangun keturunan yg soleh

Pernikahan mengajar kewajipan bersama
Suami menjadi pelindung, kamu penghuninya
Suami adalah nakhoda kapal, kamu pengemudinya
Suami bagaikan pelakon yg nakal, kamu adalah penonton kenakalannya

Saat suami menjadi raja, kamu nikmati anggur singgahsananya
Seketika suami menjadi bisa, kamulah penawar ubatnya
Seandainya suami bengis lagi lancang, sabarlah memperingatkannya

Pernikahan mengajar kita perlunya iman dan taqwa
Untuk belajar meniti sabar dan redha ALLAH SWT
Kerana memiliki suami yg tak segagah mana

Kamu akan tersentak dari alpa
Kamu bukanlah Khadijah yg begitu sempurna di dalam menjaga
Pun bukanlah Hajar yg begitu setia dalam sengsara
Cuma wanita akhir zaman yg berusaha menjadi solehah..amin

Justeru itu, wahai para suami dan isteri
jangan menuntut terlalu tinggi seandainya diri sendiri jelas tidak berupaya

Suami & isteri ingatlah:

Mengapa mendambakan isteri sehebat Khadijah,
andai diri tidak semulia Rasulullah SAW

Tidak perlu mencari isteri secantik Balqis,
andai diri tidak sehebat Sulaiman

Mengapa mengharapkan suami setampan Yusuf,
seandainya kasih tak setulus Zulaikha

Tidak perlu mencari suami seteguh Ibrahim,
andai diri tidak sekuat Hajar dan Sarah…

Sumber: nuriman.wordpress.com

True Love

True love doesn't have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you.

Find

Love isn't something you find, love is something finds you

Flower

“If you love a flower, don’t pick it up. Because if you pick it up, it dies and it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation.”

Osho

I'tiraf (sebuah pengakuan)

Ilaahii lastu lil firdausi  
Tuhanku... aku tidak layak memasuki syurga Firdaus

ahlaan wa laa aqwaa 'alaa naaril jahiimi 
Dan aku pun tak mampu menahan siksa api Neraka

Fa hablii taubatan waghfir zunuubii 
 Terimalah taubatku dan ampunilah dosa-dosaku

fa innaka ghaafirudzdzambil 'azhiimi 
Sesungguhnya Engkaulah Pengampun dosa-dosa besar

Masa Depan

“Jika kamu ingin melihat negara kamu pada masa hadapan, lihatlah pemuda pada hari ini”

"If you want to see the future of a country, then look at their young generation today"

Gone, remain, next

Sometimes you have to forget what’s gone, appreciates what’s remain and looks forward to what’s next coming

Responsibility of your choices

Take responsibility for your choices. Don’t put the blame on anything or anyone else, not even your past. You can’t change the past and you can’t control other people. You can control how you respond and what you do next. Today is a new day. Start fresh by accepting responsibility for your choices and how they shape your life’s journey. You can change your life for the better by making a series of good choices over time. Now may be a good time to start the change. It’s all up to you.

Acceptance

Understanding is the first step to acceptance, and only with acceptance can there be recovery.

Trust

TRUST is like a paper, once its crumpled, it cant be perfect again

Opportunities

When you focus on problems, you'll have more problems.
When you focus on possibilities, you'll have more opportunities

Respect, Help, Confess

Respect the old when you are young,
Help the weak when you are strong,
Confess your faults when you are wrong..

Because one day in life you will be old, weak & wrong

NO YES

In every NO from someone, is a YES to someone better.
Accept if u r rejected, Let go if u feel unloved. Move on if they choose someone or something over you.

Expectations

Shahespeare said:
"I always feel happy"
You know why?
because i dont expect anything from anyone!
Expectations always hurt.

Know Known

"There are known knowns. These are things we know that we know. There are known unknowns. That is to say, there are things that we know we don't know.But there are also unknown unknowns. There are things we don't know we don't know," Donald Rumsfeld

Love is a cycle..

When you love, you get hurt..
when you get hurt, you hate..
when you hate, you try to forget..
when you try to forget, you start missing..
and when you start missing..
you eventually fall in love again :)

Life leason

Someday, we will forget the Hurt, the reason we Cried and who Caused us pain. We will finally realize that the secret of being free is not REVENGE, but letting things unfold in their own way and own time. After all, what matters is not the first, but the last chapter of our Life which shows how well we ran the race.

Love them

Don't try to change people. Just love them! Love is what changes us.

Bad word vs bad mood

Don't mix bad words with your bad mood. you'll have many opportunities to change your mood but you'll never get the opportunity to replace the word u spoke.

Moving forward

If u cant fly then run, if u cant run then walk, if u cant walk then crawl but whatever u do.. u have to moving forward. Dont give up, just a little bit more :)