Dilema

If you're having a hard time letting go, realize that if they wanted to stay, they'd still be there. Sometimes you have to forget what's gone, appreciate what still remains, and look forward to what's coming next. It sucks when you know that you need to let go, but you can't, because you're still waiting for the impossible to happen. Although it may seem like the wrong thing to do, you have to forget about the person who forgot about you. Some people are meant to stay in your heart, but not in your life.

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Boss VS Leader

72 SIGNS OF QAYAMAT

The following signs have been sighted 1400 years years back when people had not even heard of automobiles, buildings etc !! Amazing.

1. People will leave prayer.

2. People will usurp Ama’naat.

3. Lying will become an Art.

4. There will be murders on the slightest of disagreements

5. Interest will become common.

PESAN ROH KEPADA MANUSIA

Apabila roh keluar dari jasad, ia akan berkata-kata dan seluruh isi alam sama ada di langit atau bumi akan mendengarnya kecuali jiin dan manusia. Apabila mayat dimandikan, lalu roh berkata : "Wahai orang yang memandikan, aku minta kepadamu kerana Allah untuk melepaskan pakaianku dengan perlahan-lahan sebab pada saat ini aku beristirahat daripada seretan malaikat maut". Selepas itu, mayat pula bersuara sambil merayu : "Wahai orang yang memandikan, janganlah engkau menuangkan airmu dalam keadaan panas. Begitu juga jangan menuangnya dengan air yang dingin kerana tubuhku terbakar apabila terlepasnya roh dari tubuh".

Let go

sometimes we just have to LET GO of someone who MATTERS to us not because we have to but it's the RIGHT thing to do. let us remember that we can't FORCE anyone to LOVE us. we can't BEG someone to STAY when he/she wants to LEAVE and be with someone else. however, the END of LOVE is not the END of LIFE. it should be the BEGINNING of understanding that leaves for a REASON but LEAVES with a LESSON...

Some Share : Avoiding miscommunication

All of us miscommunicate at times. Reasons for it vary from each person and situation. But a few wrong presumptions that we make about communication hamper our prospects in the long-term. Here's how to best get the message across.

12 Steps in getting good communication

1) Think before you speak. If you think about what you say before you speak, you have the chance to organize your thoughts,
rehearse your words, valuate the situation, and not say something stupid.

2) Speak up. If you don't voice your needs, you won't get what you want. And say what you want clearly and loudly enough to hear.